A record of my very first pregnancy and being a parent. A whole new experience!
Showing posts with label 24 weeks. Show all posts
Showing posts with label 24 weeks. Show all posts
Monday, March 26, 2012
I'm craving for cakes, chocolates & ice-cream!! ARRGGHH!!! Help me!! :O
This whole week has been sweet sweet and sweet stuffs!! I had sweet foods almost every day in this past whole week! I had 1.5 slices (I shared half a slice with a friend for lunch so I won't feel so guilty) of chocolate cake on Friday! I tried to make myself feel better and explain to SJ that it's ok for me to crave for sweet things this week because I'm in week 24! And according to updates by babycenter.com.my, 'Taste buds are now forming, and, believe it or not, acquiring a sweet tooth is all part of it.' Haha!
On Saturday, I have decided to challenge myself to NOT have any desserts for ONE WEEK! SJ is like the challenge-master appointed by me and he will try to make sure I stay in this challenge. Yesterday was the first day and I sort of broke my challenge already because I had an 'ice-cream potong' red bean favour (thinking that red-bean is probably the healthier option) when I was with my friends :( Somehow I had an idea that ice-cream potong has less sugar than other ice-creams because this Malaysian made ice-cream probably had more ice or other ingredients in it than sugar. I know Baskin Robbins and Haagen Diaz are super duper sweet and creamier compared to this.
Plus I am HUNGRY ALL THE TIME for the past whole week!!! :((( I want to eat or munch all the time especially sweet stuffs! I know that I have been having too much sweet stuffs because I could feel itchness in my private area. I had the same problem after chinese new year and the doctor said it could due to eating too much sweet food and with all the hormone changes in my body due to pregnancy, I could have easily contracted fungal infection. After speaking with a few mothers and expectant mothers, I realised almost everyone I spoke to had the same problem in that area! I know that I must must must reduce my sweet foods intake.
A colleague of mine was diagnosed with gestational diabetes at about week 30 and she has only gained 8 kilograms. I have already gained 7 kilograms in week 22. I hope I will not gain more than 2 kilograms in my next antenatal visit. I have sort of like self-diagnosed myself with gestational diabetes yesterday. I wanted to have something sweet after dinner yesterday but kept asking SJ for permission because I was feeling so bad if I had any without his approval. Everytime I wanted to eat something, especially more carbohydrates (such as biscuits) or sweet foods, I would look at him to get his approval but he has been very strict. He wouldn't even want to share a piece of Ferrero Rocher chocolate with me yesterday :( I offered to share a can of Coke or 100 plus with him on Friday night (this is doubly worse because these drinks are chilled and super sweet) and he gave me a box drink (which is still sweet but has lesser sugar content compared to a can of Coke) instead. I guess it's a very good thing that I have such a strict husband because I know he will be a strict parent and our kids will not be able to get their way all the time. I know I can do it, I just need to find substitutes or distract myself from FOODSSS, especially sweet stuffs.
So, I goggled about gestational diabetes yesterday night to find a substitute food that I can take which is healthier and suitable for diabetic patients (I'm not diabetic 'yet' and hope I won't be one). I had this craving feelings that I need to eat something sweet. After a few websites, there was a suggestion that I should take a muesli/cereal bar instead because having carbohydrate is the better option compared to chocolates or cakes. I have a bar of muesli in the house! Told SJ and he said OK, so I happily went to grab it. Was munching happily in front of him and suddenly he commented, 'how come your muesli bar got chocolate one?' because he saw a layer of chocolate around the muesli. The flavour of my Carman's muesli bar wrapper was Dark Chocolate! SJ must be thinking I am such an extreme because the flavour of my muesli bars is also chocolate! But I got these muesli before I got pregnant, so technically, I didn't plan to cheat. I used to be a super crazy chocolate lover before I got pregnant. I can finish a whole chocolate bar at one go.
More info about gestational diabetes: In this website: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmedhealth/PMH0001898/
Causes, incidence, and risk factors:
Pregnancy hormones can block insulin from doing its job. When this happens, glucose levels may increase in a pregnant woman's blood. You are at greater risk for gestational diabetes if you:
- Are older than 25 when you are pregnant (I'm above 25, so this is one risk factor)
- Have a family history of diabetes (Good thing all my family members don't have diabetes).
- Gave birth to a baby that weighed more than 9 pounds or had a birth defect (Not applicable as this is first baby for me)
- High blood pressure (I have low blood pressure)
- Have too much amniotic fluid (Hmm, this is possible as my bump is so huge. Shall ask dr next time I see him).
- Have had an unexplained miscarriage or stillbirth (Not applicable)
- Were overweight before your pregnancy (Nope, definitely not overweight before pregnancy).
The biggest concern of gestational diabetes is that the baby may get too big for delivery and may have complications at birth. The mothers that had gestational diabetes during their pregnancy, they will most likely to develpe type 2 diabetes in 5 to 10 years time and the children will likely to be obese and develop type 2 diabetes in the future. So therefore, I must try to prevent this from happening.
Been reading more websites on this subject and many women commented that they do not have any of these risk factors at all but still develop gestational diabetes! The only way to prevent it is to exercise regularly and eat healthily to make sure do not gain too much weight, from the early start of the pregnancy. With more information from the media, I am getting more paranoid and I think this will definitely give me the motivation to eat healthily from now onward!
Saturday, March 24, 2012
Bad dreams GO AWAY!
I'm week 24 since Thursday! Yesterday was probably the most worried day of the month for me. Don't know why I just felt so down and worried about baby a lot yesterday. I told SJ and he asked whether did baby moved and I told him baby's movements/kicks are not assuring enough nowadays :( I want to listen to baby's heartbeats :(( It has been almost 2 weeks since my antenatal visit, so I guess it's the 'circle of worry' starting again now. Can't wait to see doctor on the 13th of April. I was worrying most of yesterday and just before I went to bed last night, I told SJ that I had enough of this worrying lar, it doesn't help at all and I cannot do anything about it, so, I just DECIDED to stop worrying! Haha. Wished I had made that decision earlier yesterday and I could have a happier day yesterday. I'm definitely happier today! ;P
I guess this is one positive thing about bad dreams; it's because the expectant mother cares a lot about her baby. I noticed that I get more bad dreams on the days that I worried more. There is definitely a link between the emotional-being and the mind; the dreams are interpreting my thoughts when I sleep. Spoke to my associate today, who is also pregnant and she been having bad dreams too. I didn't know about pregnant women having such vivid bad dreams until now as no one I know has mentioned this to me. I used to have so much vivid dreams before I got pregnant that I thought I was the only one experiencing this now.
Must really think happy thoughts everyday because I want these bad dreams to go away.
Happy news for 23rd March! It's our 3rd official (registration of marriage) wedding anniversary & SJ has got a much fatter with a bump wife compared to a super thin new wife 3 years ago. I remembered I was so thin that my mother-in-law asked me to gain some weight to look better. Oh well, I'm sure I can get back to that shape after baby arrives :P
Maybe because of my worrying yesterday and some (or rather most) of the days during this pregnancy, I have been having more vivid bad dreams and some of them woke me up in the middle of the night. I was woken up last night too. My dreams were random, weird and scary. Yesterday I dreamt that I was being chased by an ugly-looking scary man, it was like a combination of 'saw-massacre' murderer with 'underworld' creatures man and I was running up a hill extremely extremely slowly. He was trying to grab me from behind and I woke up. What a relief when I woke up but it was definitely scary. There was one time that I dreamt that SJ went clubbing and left the pregnant me at home, I was so angry at him for leaving me at home alone that I woke up and scolded him. Poor him as he got scolded by me in the morning before he went to work that day. It was so weird and funny at the same time because he is definitely not a clubbing/disco person. The chances of me leaving him with the baby at home while I go clubbing is higher than him doing it to me.
I don't really think about my dreams during the day and the details of the bad dreams would slowly fade away unless I described to SJ in the mornings. I can function quite normally during the day and the bad dreams don't affect me much. I have read about bad dreams and pregnancy in babycenter.com.my before I started to have bad dreams. I was quite prepared to have some weird dreams because I was informed by that website that this is usual in pregnant women and these are due to the anxiety and fears of the expectant mothers. Expectant mothers are champions of bad dreams.
I goggled about this and there is this website that has some good news about bad dreams in pregnancy.
First, there's the link between bad dreams and "good" labor. The late psychologist Patricia Maybruck, the grandma of pregnancy dream research, published a dissertation in 1986 based on research suggesting that pregnant women with stressful dreams — particularly ones in which the dreamer acted assertively against a threat — had shorter labors, as in fewer than 10 hours. Her hypothesis: that there is a connection between successfully "fighting back" in nightmares and fighting to more fully control labor.
Secondly, there may be a link between bad dreams in pregnancy and doing better, emotionally, after the baby is born. In a 2003 Hebrew University study, Tamar Kron and Adi Brosh cite a lower incidence of postpartum depression (PPD) among women who'd had disturbing pregnancy dreams. Perhaps, Kron and Brosh speculate, the pregnant women who did not later develop PPD "did 'emotional work' with the help of their dreams."
I guess this is one positive thing about bad dreams; it's because the expectant mother cares a lot about her baby. I noticed that I get more bad dreams on the days that I worried more. There is definitely a link between the emotional-being and the mind; the dreams are interpreting my thoughts when I sleep. Spoke to my associate today, who is also pregnant and she been having bad dreams too. I didn't know about pregnant women having such vivid bad dreams until now as no one I know has mentioned this to me. I used to have so much vivid dreams before I got pregnant that I thought I was the only one experiencing this now.
Must really think happy thoughts everyday because I want these bad dreams to go away.
Happy news for 23rd March! It's our 3rd official (registration of marriage) wedding anniversary & SJ has got a much fatter with a bump wife compared to a super thin new wife 3 years ago. I remembered I was so thin that my mother-in-law asked me to gain some weight to look better. Oh well, I'm sure I can get back to that shape after baby arrives :P
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